Surround Yourself With Interesting People, Stay Away From Interested People

In addition to looking for interesting people, we must try to become such people ourselves, who can bring things to others.

The emotions of others are contagious. So whether you like it or not, the people around you influence you. Surely you know many interesting people, but there are also interested people who will try to enter your life.

It is obvious that there are many situations in our life in which it will not be possible to choose between interesting people or interested people.

Work, our own family or any other circumstance can condition the type of people around us. However, we can choose to do good or bad.

I want interesting people in my life

Interesting people enrich your life, fill it, and make it brighter.

They are excellent contributions of energy which always contribute positively to your emotions and your intellectual requests.

We always want to have interesting people around us.

So, if you want to know if you are currently surrounded by these types of people, here are some of their characteristics:

• They send you very positive emotions and during bad times, they are by your side to put a smile on your face.
• They allow you to grow as a person, help you understand everything that cannot be seen, and enrich you with a multitude of perspectives.
• Like all of us, they don’t know everything, but they are open to exploring new things with you. Their alert and curious minds give you optimism and the urge to explore new things.
• With their good deeds and their way of being, they succeed in bringing out the best in you so that you are the best version of yourself.

If you are able to recognize each of the above points, great! You are with very interesting people who bring you a lot.

This is very positive and these people should always be by your side, to bring you light and transmit their joy to you.

Avoid interested people

Interested people are driven by interests. Instead of bringing the positive into your life, they do the exact opposite: they fill it with negativity.

It is clear that to some extent we are all interested people. Wanting to surround yourself with interested people already makes us interested people.

However, the people who come close to you, wanting something without giving you anything in return, are the most negative, since they steal your energy from you and it hurts you.

Interested people also have their own characteristics. Although they are difficult to identify, you will recognize them by the following description:

• They behave like emotional vampires. Any conversation with them wears you out and you feel like they are robbing you of energy just by being by your side.
• They are never happy and always ask for more. They don’t care much about the sacrifices you make. It will never be enough and they are telling you that clearly.
• They never engage in relationships and will never be ready to give more than necessary.
• They are great specialists to make you feel guilty. Or to hold you accountable for actions or circumstances in which you did not even participate.

Are the interested people bad?

Of course not. The problem is that they don’t know how to bond in another way and this has consequences for others.

To avoid becoming their subjects, we must identify them and set limits. This is the only way we can prevent their behavior from affecting us.

Stay away from anyone who tries to hurt you, manipulate you, and continually infiltrate you with negative emotions and feelings. 

Do the exact opposite and if you can choose, surround yourself with people who bring you light and positivism.

Finally, it is very important that you try to become an interesting person, a person who vibrates, who conveys good feelings, who smiles and who is able to build healthy relationships.