Good People Have More Than One Wound On Their Heart

Good people put the needs of others first over their own. But sometimes you also have to know how to say

Good people don’t know they are. They do not understand that their quality lies in the fact that they think of others first before thinking of themselves.

It’s how they understand life, what defines them and why they are different.

What often happens with this type of understanding behavior is that humility sometimes tends to overlook the “self-protection” part that we should all cultivate through good self-esteem and self-esteem.

Giving everything to others is a noble act, but we must never forget that we can find ourselves completely empty if we do too much.

Also, others may not appreciate our every effort. We invite you here to think about this.

Good people have wounds in their souls

It is possible that many people first of all wonder who these people are who are placed in the “good people” category.

Of course, there are always nuances and we all practice good and respect in our own way.

From a certain point of view, we are always honest with ourselves and others.

But when we talk about good people, we are referring to these:

• These are people who, in general, do not know how to say “NO”. When someone asks them something, they are able to put aside their priorities and offer to help.

• They don’t ask who they are helping and who they are not. They take care of their loved ones, their friends, their colleagues… they always have time for others.

• They are empathetic people, they are able to sense the pain and emotions of others, and even the pain of the world.

• They are sensitive, social and always lack the time to do things.

We are sure that you can relate to this and know someone who sees life that way.

In this case, there comes a time when more weight is lodged in the heart than joys.

When others take it for granted and no longer appreciate the efforts of these people at their fair value

We told you at the beginning: there comes a time when others take it for granted, that they will always get the same from these people, and that they will always be available to take care of them, help them. or console them.

• When the signs of affections are no longer questioned and they are “acquired”, the real problem appears: people stop looking us in the face and in the heart. They don’t realize that maybe today we’re not doing well.

• Or worse yet, they don’t realize that day after day we stop taking care of ourselves, that we need time, and that we also have the right to say NO and to think of ourselves.

• Little by little, physical but also emotional fatigue arrive. The moment we realize that others are asking us for more than we can give, overload and stress appear.
• This type of overload is even more dangerous in the right people. Indeed, we realize that we are no longer seen as “people with rights and needs”. It is something destructive if it comes from a spouse or loved one.

The wounds we hide to look strong

Good people don’t complain because they don’t like to sound negative. They are used to optimism, energy and emotional openness.

• After a while, their hearts accumulate a lot of disappointments. They realize how far the selfishness of other people can go.

• The worst happens when the right people feel guilty about their own injuries. The thoughts they may have are as follows:

“It happens to me because I trust too much, that I am stupid and that I am taken advantage of…” ”

We should never get carried away by these negative thoughts.

We run the risk of falling into depression and affecting our self-esteem. Don’t allow that .

Good people also have the right to say “NO”

Accept them today: you will never be a bad person or a selfish being if, from time to time, you allow yourself to say “NO”.

• To say NO is to set limits to protect your integrity and emotional health.

• A “NO” from time to time allows others to understand that we are also people with needs and that we deserve, like everyone else, to be listened to and respected.

• Setting limits also means protecting ourselves and devoting time to ourselves. Always remember that giving everything to others can drain you completely. Keep some of it for yourself, to be happy.

If you are happy, you will be able to continue to move forward towards others and to see life as you feel it: by doing good, and by offering smiles and optimism.